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New York City Photos USA

Photo of the Week: Where Harry (sort of) Met Sally

Remember that scene in the movie When Harry Met Sally, when Sally, er, rather vocally shows Harry how to fake the “throes of passion,” and a guy a woman sitting near them (director Rob Reiner’s mother in real life – and thanks to my commenter Susan for correcting me) sitting near them sees her display and says to the waiter, “I’ll have what she’s having?”

That scene was filmed at the venerable Katz’s Delicatessen, on the Lower East Side in New York City.

Since my husband and I consider that “our movie” (we were married the year it was released) I made a beeline to Katz’s when I was in New York for Condé Nast Traveler, and I took a picture of the famous table where the characters were sitting.

Yep, that’s a sign they’ve hung above it, so you can’t miss it. 🙂

I didn’t eat anything there, but did take a look at the menu and was pretty tempted.

The guidebook I was reviewing, Pauline Frommer’s New York City (Pauline Frommer Guides), said the sandwiches were to die for.

That day, though, a sentimental journey was filling enough for me.

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Asia

Fun souvenir: Japanese children’s chopsticks and bento boxes

My fellow Perceptive Travel blog author Nia Malchik had a moment in the spotlight recently on the Going Places blog, which is part of the Cookie parenting magazine Web site.

Nia wrote about some fun wooden beads that she’d found for her son on a trip to Austria, and it got me to thinking about packable, easy-to-find kid’s souvenirs from other countries.

I thought I’d share photos of a couple of my favorites from Japan….

Kid-sized chopsticks and bento boxes.

They are a fun and inexpensive souvenir, and if your children are anime fans, it’s easy to find all sorts of anime bento boxes and chopsticks that go way beyond Power Rangers.

Any large Japanese department store will have an assortment, as will any toy store, houseware/kitchenware shop or large 100 Yen store (the equivalent of a Dollar General in the U.S.)

The bento box compartments are pretty teensy, but work well for small items like cheese cubes and grapes.

Plus, the “cool factor” when they are pulled out of a lunchbox is hard to beat.

Savvy use of chopsticks, however, may take a little more effort….

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New York City USA

New York City discovery: Bryant Park Reading Room

I love stumbling upon unexpected discoveries.

While in New York to cover a Condé Nast Traveler event, I spent a little time in Bryant Park, near Times Square and just behind the New York Public Library. After picking up sandwich from the ‘wichcraft food concessionaire, I walked over to find a spot to sit and eat, and found this outdoor library under the trees.

Sponsored by HSBC Bank and supported by the New York library system, there are both adult and children’s reading areas, with magazine racks and books to page through while you enjoy pleasant park surroundings.

It is near the 42nd Street/Avenue of the Americas corner and is open 11 am – 7 pm daily, weather permitting. You don’t need a card; the only requirement is to stay within the designated reading area to use the materials.

Apparently this “open air library” (or some form of one) has historic origins. From the Bryant Park Web site:

“The original Reading Room began in August of 1935 as a public response to the Depression Era job losses in New York. Many people did not have anywhere to go during the day, and no prospects for jobs. The New York Public Library opened the ‘Open Air Library’ to give these out-of-work businessmen and intellectuals a place to go where they did not need money, a valid address, a library card, or any identification to enjoy the reading materials.”

What a nice discovery in an already impressive park, and what a break it would provide harried families traveling with kids who would like to get away from the Times Square cacophony.

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Tips

What did 32,633 readers choose as the best in travel? Answers here.

This is the 21st year of the Condé Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice Awards, one of the year’s biggest events for the magazine (full results will be listed in the November print issue.) Readers gave collective feedback on 9,168 hotels, resorts, cities, islands, cruise lines, airlines and car rental agencies.

Thanks to Consumer Travel Editor Wendy Perrin, I was flown to New York City (on JetBlue – hurray for seatback TV and satellite radio plus legroom!) to live-tweet the event on my Twitter stream (here are the awards-related tweets on Twitter’s search engine, using “#rca08” which is a “hashtag” used to track a single topic.)

Not all winners were announced at the ceremony (only those who were able to send representatives to the event) but here is the complete list of awardees by poll ranking and here they are on a Google Map. I’m confining this post to those announced the night of October 15, as I typed like a maniac and grappled with a few WiFi and power issues.  My blogging compadres from Jaunted were also there somewhere, but I missed them in the crush.

Since I’m interested in how tourism organizations use social media, I’ve also included URLs to any official blogs that I could find.

Cities

Islands

  • Best Caribbean/Atlantic island: Bermuda (other finalists were St. Barts and St. John.)
  • Best Pacific Island: Maui (other finalists were Kauai and Bora Bora.)

Hotels

  • Best US hotel: The Peninsula Chicago (other finalists were the Elizabeth Pointe Lodge, Amelia Island FL and the Stephanie Inn, Cannon Beach OR.)
  • Best Asian hotel: The Oberoi Udaivilas, Rajasthan India (other finalists were the Peninsula Hong Kong and another Oberoi property, the Amarvilas in Agra, India.)

Resorts

  • Best Resort in Asia: Four Seasons Tented Camp Golden Triangle in Chiang Rai, Thailand (er, no, this is not really a camp for kids, and when I did a currency conversion of their rates from Thai baht into US dollars, I saw a figure of $2,152.89 per night, not including tax or tips. Wow.) Other finalists were the Four Seasons Bali at Sayan and the Oberoi Vanyavilas, Rajasthan.
  • Best Resort, Atlantic Ocean: The One&Only Ocean Club, Bahamas (with an annoying all-Flash Web site that drove me nuts auto-playing music and not providing distinct URLs for each property.) Other finalists include Pink Sands, Bermuda and The Reefs, Bermuda.
  • Best Resort, Mexico: A tie between the One&Only Palmilla and The Tides, Riviera Maya
    (the other finalist was the JW Marriott Resort and Spa in Cancun.)
  • Best Resort, Caribbean: The Ritz-Carlton Grand Cayman (other finalists were Curtain Bluff, Antigua and Petit St. Vincent Resort, Grenadines.)
  • Best Resort, Hawaii: The Four Seasons Maui at Wailea (other finalists were, um, two other Four Seasons properties….at this point I’m wondering, are there NO awesome places that aren’t chains? OK, it was the Four Seasons Hualalai on the Big Island and the Four Seasons Lana’i The Lodge at Koele.)

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Blog New York City Podcasts USA

Audio post: impressions from a day in New York City

Some impressions and thoughts from a day of running around New York before I live-tweet the Conde Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice Awards this evening.

Lesson for me: stop trying to do too much and you’ll have a better time as a traveler!

I’m going to have you click this URL link for my New York audio post, because (just like the last time I tried this) every time I try to embed the player, it plays someone else’s random audio post, and I never have time to get ahold of anyone at Utterli to say….FIX THAT!

Best wishes from NYC….

(Ignore the player below while I work with Utterli tech support)

(Update 2010 – unfortunately the Utterli service is now defunct, so the recording is gone.)

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Philosophy

Thinking about poverty on Blog Action Day

On a day when I’m in New York to cover a major Condé Nast Traveler event on Twitter, I want to take a moment to think about something totally different….poverty in the U.S.

What brought this on?

It’s Blog Action Day, which is

“….an annual nonprofit event that aims to unite the world’s bloggers, podcasters and videocasters to post about the same issue on the same day. Our aim is to raise awareness and trigger a global discussion.”

You can also keep up with everyone’s efforts today by following the Blog Action Day Twitter stream.

For one man’s perspective, take a look at my friend and colleague Mike Chapman’s Twitter stream as he spends a night on the streets of Austin with the homeless, in support of this effort to make people think differently about poverty.

What does this have to do with a family travel blog?

Actually, I started really thinking about this several years ago on a road trip with the kids through the American South, particularly during our stay in the blues mecca of Clarksdale, Mississippi.

Thanks to a wrong turn by Navigator Mom one afternoon, we ended up in a pretty poor section of town. I don’t think my kids had ever come face-to-face with grinding poverty in their own country; it was an uncomfortable moment for all of us.

It’s nice and noteworthy when people go far away to other countries on various volunteer missions to help others, but after that day in Mississippi I usually think, “Are you sure that there aren’t people in desperate need right in your own hometown, your own county, your own state?”  Normally I would never advocate against travel, but in this case, check around locally first.

If you’re like most people, it’s hard to know where to start or what to do.

I feel that way too, but now that I’ve been fortunate enough to meet a few of the great people at my local food bank in Austin, I think that’s where I’ll start. Even something as small as dropping off some food items and diapers makes me feel that I’m doing something concrete and useful.

We’re in a time of economic struggles right now, and people may be finding themselves a lot closer to the poverty line than they’d ever expected. Simple, basic hallmarks of security like a home, some food and clothes to wear are not something to take for granted, and a lot of people scramble every day to find one or all of them.

Let’s take time today to think about how we can help each other.

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Site reviews Tips

One-stop travel research: the BootsnAll Traveler’s Toolkit

Sometimes, too much of a good thing can be overwhelming.

BootsnAll is a very comprehensive Web site, with all sorts of information for the independent traveler, but it can be hard to know where to start looking for those information nuggets.

Enter the Traveler’s Toolkit (it’s almost better than a totally reorganized garage, or having all the clothes in your kid’s closet sorted by type and color.)

We’ve got your Transportation Guide – everything from how to sleep in airports to American rail travel (yes, we still have some trains, thank goodness) to some thoughts on space travel.

We’ve got your Budget and Money Travel Guide, your Travel Guidebooks and Online Resources (including free, downloadable travel guides – yay!) and a comprehensive Women’s Travel Guide (including a helpful guide to packing.)

That’s just a sampler (and of course, don’t miss the Family Travel Guide section) so dive right in to the BootsnAll Traveler’s Toolkit and rummage around!

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Europe

Travel to teach your kids: what my daughter learned in Belgium’s Flanders Fields

There is much more to Belgium than eating great chocolate, swilling down handcrafted beer and buying lace tablecloths.

As a history enthusiast, I’ve always been interested in a little-known story from World War One that partly occurred in Ieper, in far western Belgium (the main town has one name spelled two ways – the French “Ypres” or the preferred “Ieper,” in deference to that area’s Flemish heritage.)

There is no lack of charm to Ieper; many wealthy medieval cloth guilds spent fabric and button profits erecting gorgeous buildings. What is extraordinary is that most of what you see was painstakingly rebuilt after 1918 by the determined townsfolk themselves. They had been left with an artillery-ravaged wasteland after German and Allied forces mercilessly pounded the same real estate over and over again; not much was left but mud puddles, pockmarked walls and gaping holes.

My parents and I took my preteen daughter there to learn more about World War One (which tore the Victorian/Edwardian era apart and ushered in the Modern Age) and to hear stories like the December 1914 Christmas truce between German, British, French and Belgian soldiers, when arms were spontaneously laid down across parts of the Western Front.

Although I’m a Navy veteran and have made it my business to study military history, I was not interested in my kid’s ability to recite the tactical differences between troop movements during the 2nd Battle of the Marne and the 3rd Battle of Ypres/Passchendaele, and frankly I can’t do that, either.

We were going for the big picture on war and some immersion into history.

Visual aids before a trip are usually helpful with children, so together we watched the classic WWI movie “All Quiet on the Western Front,” based on German Erich Maria Remarque’s 1929 anti-war novel. This award-winning film was quite controversial when it was released in 1930, mostly because there was nothing glossy or sentimental in its scathing portrayal of overly enthused civilians who thought war was some sort of grand adventure.

I also explained the importance of “In Flanders Fields.”

It is a poem written in a bloodied dressing station after seventeen straight days of battle, by Canadian doctor John McCrae. My grandmother was so impressed by the words that she cut it out of a magazine and put on her kitchen wall, where for decades I saw it hanging in the Texas heat…

“In Flanders Fields the poppies blow, between the crosses, row on row, that mark our place; and in the sky, the larks, still bravely singing, fly –scarce heard amid the guns below….”

For you and your family to grasp the enormity of the First War’s impact on this part of Belgium and upon the history of Europe, I have three recommendations:

  • See the extraordinarily well-conceived and creative Flanders Fields museum in Ieper. It is a comprehensive multimedia, multi-language overview of the battles, their effect on the local Belgian populace and the sacrifices of the approximately 730,000 soldiers on both sides, both named and unknown, who were casualties between 1915 and 1917. Be forewarned about seeing the museum with young children, however; the section that attempts to recreate trench warfare sounds and atmosphere is so realistically done that it can be very upsetting.
  • Take advantage of a guided tour of the memorials, cemeteries and even the deceptively peaceful fields in Flanders. My daughter, her grandparents and I went to the very spot where McCrae wrote his poem; a lovely little hollow next to the highway with a commemorative plaque. We were the only U.S. people in a group with Salient Tours, in a minivan crowded with friendly British and Canadian visitors who had come to learn more about the Great War that took so many of their ancestors.The voluble and knowledgeable young British tour guide (on leave from his university) took us to the McCrae site, several key battle lines and a preserved area with an original trench that you can walk through. We also saw a few of the over 120 local cemeteries honoring the war dead, including a somber German burial ground; the guide commented wryly that it was “typically German and well-organized, with the only clean and functional toilets found at any of the cemeteries.”
  • Attend the Last Post. The ceremony has been held nightly at 8 pm (with a four year break for the Second World War) since 1929 by the local Ieper fire brigade. Rain or shine, the volunteer buglers take their positions at the Menin Gate, a large commemorative arch over a local road. While the police stop all traffic, the plaintive notes of Last Post, the British equivalent of “Taps,” echo off of the memorial’s engraved walls. The carved names, sorted by regiment, are of the over 50,000 British and Commonwealth soldiers who died but were never found. That means that not enough of those men were ever collected to actually bury in one of the 120 cemeteries.The names cover the entire smooth surface of the Menin Gate. “Missing, believed killed.”

We also attended a funeral.

Yes, even today the Belgians are still digging up bits and pieces of those whose names are lost to history (to say nothing of the artillery shells and weaponry that they regularly turn up after a good plowing. Consider that 3000 guns fired four and a quarter million shells in the ten day bombardment prior to the 3rd Battle of Ypres.) Our tourguide learned that three remains had been recovered and were to be buried within an hour, so with the group’s concurrence (and my daughter’s curiosity about a funeral held almost eighty-five years after the Armistice) we diverted from the tour route and went to a tiny country cemetery.

So little remained of the fallen that they were each contained in a small, neat pine hatbox-sized container. A local Anglican priest came to the grave site to offer traditional words, and several Army representatives traveled from Britain to represent the men’s military unit, because insignia had been found to indicate that they had been with a Welsh regiment. It was a peaceful, sunny day as we watched the soldiers finally put to rest, and it helped bring a bit of closure to the countless stories my child had heard about those who were never found.

But let’s address the obvious….why the heck do you want to take a young person to see a battlefield? Or any less-than-pleasant destinations like Oświęcim in Poland, better known as the Auschwitz-Birkenau concentration camp? Clearly, such things can only be carefully shown and explained to mature children who are old enough to handle it, and that is an adult’s judgment call.

There are positive aspects to helping our youth learn how to grapple with the great issues of human existence, which unfortunately includes fundamental questions of why people sometimes kill each other. Children will become citizens and make voting decisions about weighty questions of war and when/whether to commit to it.

In view of the ongoing hostilities today, I cannot think of a more worthwhile journey to make with your kids than to Flanders Fields.

(Portions of this post ran as an article in the March/April 2007 issue of Transitions Abroad magazine. It won an Honorable Mention in the 2007 Solas Awards for travel writing)

Accommodations: We stayed with charming Annette Linthout (who also conducts personal battlefield tours) at the Camalou Bed & Breakfast, 351 Dikkebusseweg, 8908 Ieper, Belgium. Telephone +32 (0)57 204 342.  Web site: https://www.camalou.com .

The best WWI online educational information that I’ve found is this British Web site, which includes video clips like German troops marching into Brussels and music files of “It’s a Long Way to Tipperary”: https://www.firstworldwar.com/

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Tips

Travel budget squished? How to find the best hotel deals

I recently responded to an inquiry through PR meister Peter Shankman’s HARO (“Help A Reporter Out.”)

A journalist was working on a travel article for the financial lifestyle Web site MainStreet.com, so I sent her some of my favorite tips on how to spend less on a hotel room.

The resulting article, Score a Hotel Deal Abroad, quotes me and other travel experts but of course didn’t have room to include my entire input, so I thought I’d give it to you here on Family Travel:

Here are some questions about hotel deals and my thoughts in response:

– What’s the number one misconception about hotel deals?

Deals are often best on a hotel’s own Web site or with a direct call to the facility, not necessarily on sites like Orbitz or Expedia.  Hotels, quite frankly, feel less committed to a customer who chooses to stay with them only because that hotel was the cheapest option on Travelocity.

Hotels want your attention and your loyalty, so many are running excellent packages and deals from their own sites, and they are very responsive to a customer who calls directly.  A customer calling to say, “How can I stay at your hotel and still meet my budget requirements” is certainly a bird-in-hand customer, and who wouldn’t want one of those in tight economic times?

– What are three ways to get a good deal on a hotel that consumers should know about and why?

  1. Look for packages. If you’re visiting a city and plan to take the kids to certain attractions anyway, see if there is a hotel offering attraction tickets or a City Pass, plus lodging.  Check the city’s tourism Web site, where value packages and deals for visitors are almost always available to anyone. Bundled is often cheaper than a la carte, just like in a restaurant.
  2. Try Sunday night. Weekend traffic has checked out by late Sunday, but Monday’s customers haven’t arrived yet, so that means empty beds that must be sold, often at a low price.  This works well for families in summer, when kids are out of school, or for homeschooling families year-round.  We found an excellent Sunday rate recently at the Houston, Texas Houstonian Hotel, a place that would normally be out of my budget range.  They had three great pools and plenty to do; my kids loved it.
  3. Try business hotels on weekends. Especially in large cities, chain hotels cluster in downtown or business districts to support business travelers during the week. On weekends, they sit empty, so prices often drop to lure customers, making them perfect for leisure travelers.  The location may be “slow” because surrounding offices are closed for the weekend, but if you don’t mind that, you’ve just scored a nice room for a lot less money.

– Are there certain times of year that are better than others to get good deals?

Sure, everyone’s heard of travel in the “off-season” for better rates, and that’s because it’s true.

The Caribbean is cheaper in summer because it’s hot, but if you’re like me and have lived in the Middle East, Florida and now Texas, that is surely no problem! 🙂  Places like Utah and Colorado that specialize in winter sports also have tons of activities and good prices in the summer, their off-season.

I’m particularly fond of the idea of holidays spent somewhere other than home, including travel over Thanksgiving – many wonderful places in Europe are so much less expensive in November, so put on a jacket and go.  I’d rather have a lovely meal sitting in a Paris bistro than obsess too much over missing turkey one year.

– Are there any websites that you recommend?

  1. Kayak.com for a quick way to survey prices across many airlines and hotel chains. To buy your ticket or lodging, however, you click through to the actual hotel or airline Web site, which as I said above means that you may find even better deals.
  2. TripAdvisor.com for an overview of opinions about a location or facility. These are user-generated reviews and can be all over the map in terms of accuracy, so I throw out the “top and bottom” entries.  The overly complimentary top ones may be planted by staff or PR, the bottom ones may be written by some emotional person having either a bad day or unrealistic expectations.  Somewhere in the middle is the truth. It’s a data point for me as a trip planner.I’m always impressed when there is a bad review but the hotel/restaurant/etc. took the time to come onto TripAdvisor and respond.  I wish more places would wake up about how important it is to never let bad news about your company just sit there.
  3. Google Blog Search.  As a blogger myself, I know that some of the best travel information is found on local blogs written by people who are passionate about where they live, but it can be hard to find the gems. Google Blog Search helps me sift through the offerings.  Insights may pop up in unexpected places; a “locavore” food blog, for example, will often have excellent suggestions about local places to eat that I’d never find otherwise.

– Is it better to buy combo deals, why or why not? Are there certain credit cards that could help?

I am a big fan of combination deals in some circumstances, but know yourself as a traveler.

When I took my preteen daughter and 20-something nephew to Hong Kong and Tokyo, we found a very good package deal for airfare and lodging at the Go-Today.com Web site (I often see their packages on BootsnAll’s Cheap Travel Scout and in Budget Travel magazine.)  The key for me was that I was not terribly picky about a specific hotel or airline, which is important because the selection was limited.

Also, the included city tours were not mandatory, which works for me because I knew both cities well enough to be my own tourguide, and I prefer independent travel anyway.  Finally, the package was nonrefundable, which is true for many package deals, so I bought trip insurance (something I don’t normally do) because I did not want unexpected illness or anything else to cause me to lose my money.

Combo deals mean better prices in exchange for a loss of flexibility, so the traveler must be ready for that.

I do use an American Express card for business travel related to my writing and Web 2.0/social media consulting, and I’ve found that their awards points program is very generous. It’s come in handy several times to knock back the price of airline tickets and other vacation products, so I’m careful to check the AMEX online travel section for possible deals when I’m making travel plans.

Finally, I have learned that there may be hotel price points that you don’t want to go below; on the Perceptive Travel blog, we talked about whether I ask too much of US budget lodging below about $50-$60.

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Blog

Live, from New York, it’s Condé Nast Traveler!

CNTraveler Readers\' Choice AwardsYes, the annual Condé Nast Traveler 2008 Readers’ Choice Awards will be coming to you live from their big awards ceremony on the evening of October 15, because I’m going to be there to “live-tweet” the event on my Twitter stream.

That woman in evening attire at the New York Public Library XYZ swanky Manhattan venue (details to follow on ceremony location) who is supersonically typing on her laptop? That will be me.

Hopefully my Merlot and crudités won’t get dumped onto the keyboard.   🙂

I’ll be sending up-to-the-minute accounts of who won which award for hotels, cruise lines, airlines, islands and cities across the globe. I’ll tell you how the crowd is reacting, what the award winners say and any other fun tidbits that come across my radar.

Over 30,000 people vote in this survey, and I also plan to write a blog post about the woman behind the questions and the methodology used to determine the winners.  This isn’t that guy who won a fake wine award; this is a carefully vetted process with input from savvy readers.

Last year, for example, the readers of the magazine and Web site chose Sydney, Australia as their favorite city worldwide, and San Francisco as their favorite US city. Here’s some more of the 2007 list on BootsnAll’s Business Travel Logue.

I plan to do as many on-the-fly interviews as I can, with a focus on two areas:

  • The magazine is pretty upscale, and you know that’s not how I travel. How can a budget-minded person, especially with kids, take advantage of the companies and properties that are chosen as winners?  Is there room for us at the Gucci table?  I think there is, Wendy has convinced me that there is, and I’m going to find out how for you.
  • I’d like to know what the high-scoring companies are doing to establish a presence on the Web in social media. Do they blog? Are they on Twitter? Facebook?  Are their personnel on LinkedIn? How do they reach out to customers in a Web 2.0 manner?

I’m actually not the first to live-tweet for Traveler — that honor goes to my friend and fellow travel blogger Pam Mandel of Nerd’s Eye View, who did a fabulous job of live-tweeting the recent World Savers Congress (here are most of the posts that everyone tweeted to cover that event, so you can see what it looks like.)

See you in New York in October….